Been in a situation where one is having a problem of choosing which path to go and decide what one should do? Well, it is not easy when being in one’s shoes. Either to just go with the flow, let the flow bring one to a place where he/she would be in the future.. or choose where to go to either against the flow or take another route. It is up to that one particular person to make his/her decision.
When one is stuck in the middle, to choose between two friends, that one person surely have difficulty to decide as he/she would not want to hurt anyone’s feelings by choosing one friend over the other. So, this particular person would opt for a much better solution, i.e. find a new friend. Will that help to solve the problem? Hmm… that is a risk that he/she has to take. Perhaps that would make the two friends to work things out and realize their mistake…or this would make the two of them be separated from him/her and lose the friendship. But whatever it is, if the two friends are actually sincere in their relationship with him/her, then the friendship bond will still be there and they will still be friends. It would be understood that if one of the friends decided to end their friendship, it may mean that he/she has not been sincere towards the friendship and don’t want to be friends again. Again, it is up to the individual on how he/she treats his/her friends.
Friends come and go… They may be seasonal: come when you are in happiness and spend most time with all the joyful activities…but will leave when the time comes, either when you are down or just don’t have anything to do with you anymore.. They will just leave without leaving a note... They could also be friends for a lifetime…accepting for who you are and would want to spend most of the time with you during joys and sorrows…though you are already married, they will still keep the friendship alive and kicking…keeping you company when in needy times…
Well, no matter what type of friends we have, we still need to care about their feelings and try as far possible not to hurt them or isolate them from our lives... Always giving and forgiving... Love them, appreciate them and cry with them… Tell them that you care.