Saturday, 30 October 2010

Jangan mencari yang terlalu sempurna.... :)

Jika kamu memancing ikan....Setelah ikan itu terlekat di mata kail, hendaklah kamu mengambil ikan itu....Janganlah sesekali kamu LEPASKAN ia semula ke dalam air begitu saja....Kerana ia akan SAKIT oleh kerana bisanya ketajaman mata kailmu dan mungkin ia akan MENDERITA selagi ia masih hidup.


Begitulah juga .........


Setelah kamu memberi banyak PENGHARAPAN kepada seseorang...Setelah ia mulai MENYAYANGIMU hendaklah kamu MENJAGA hatinya....Janganlah sesekali kamu meninggalkannya begitu saja....Kerana dia akan TERLUKA oleh kenangan bersamamu dan mungkin TIDAK dapat MELUPAKAN segalanya selagi dia mengingatmu. ...


Jika kamu menadah air biarlah berpada, jangan terlalu mengharap pada takungannya dan janganlah menganggap ia begitu teguh.... cukuplah sekadar keperluanmu. ...Apabila sekali ia retak.... tentu sukar untuk kamu menambalnya semula.... Akhirnya ia dibuang....


Sedangkan jika kamu cuba memperbaikinya mungkin ia masih dapat dipergunakan lagi....Begitu juga jika kamu memiliki seseorang, TERIMALAH seadanya....Janganlah kamu terlalu mengaguminya dan janganlah kamu menganggapnya begitu istimewa....Anggaplah dia manusia biasa. Apabila sekali dia melakukan KESILAPAN bukan mudah bagi kamu untuk menerimanya.... akhirnya kamu KECEWA dan meninggalkannya.


Sedangkan jika kamu MEMAAFKANNYA boleh jadi hubungan kamu akan TERUS hingga ke akhirnya....Jika kamu telah memiliki sepinggan nasi... yang kamu pasti baik untuk dirimu. Mengenyangkan. Berkhasiat.Mengapa kamu berlengah, cuba mencari makanan yang lain..Terlalu ingin mengejar kelazatan.Kelak, nasi itu akan basi dan kamu tidak boleh memakannya. Kamu akan menyesal.


Begitu juga jika kamu telah bertemu dengan seorang insan..... yang pasti membawa KEBAIKAN kepada dirimu. MENYAYANGIMU. ..MENGASIHIMU. ..Mengapa kamu berlengah, cuba MEMBANDINGKANNYA dengan yang lain.


Terlalu mengejar kesempurnaan.Kelak, kamu akan KEHILANGANNYA apabila dia menjadi milik orang lain... Kamu juga yang akan MENYESAL.....

Wednesday, 15 September 2010

Salam... Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri.. Maaf zahir dan batin...

I've been hearing from people that raya this year isn't as joyful as the previous years... and I admit that it's true.. well, not only myself, but many others had that experience... what could be the reason for that? hmm.. makes me think... well, as for me, I had to be more careful in spending money before raya and after raya because both my cars are having their birthday on the same month, i.e. September...hehehe... I guess it will cost almost $900 (in total) for both cars. That is the reason why I shouldn't be spending like before.. sorry guys, open house would not be a priority this year.. just come to my house but let me know when you guys are coming so I can fix some delicacy.. :)

Though Raya this year coincides with my birthday, people thought it will be double celebration for me and those celebrating their birthday.. Anyway, I'm really thankful for all the Birthday wishes and doa from family members, friends and students. Love you all..

Didn't get any presents or birthday surprises, I just bought myself a DQ Chocolate Sundae... Just to cheer myself up... Felt sad a bit but it felt great after eating the ice cream.. :)

Yesterday I went to Bandar to meet with some friends... and I also went to visit my student's mum who is admitted in RIPAS after her surgery.. There I also meet this guy whose kind and sweet, we know each other three months ago... I'm really happy to meet him and spent almost two hours sitting next to each other and talked... It was really sweet as we talked, we smile and laugh together.. It felt comfortable and I enjoyed the quality time with him. I understand that we seldom see each other much, eventhough we work in the same district and our workplaces are not so far from each other, and so is our place of stay.. We do bump into each other a few times on the road, but being with him yesterday, it gave me a different perception about myself, himself and...us... only Allah knows best... he read the doa and prays for the speedy recovery of my student's mum.. hopefully she'll recover soon.. Amiin...

I know that I wasn't dreaming about him... he's REAL and that's really him... so calm and relaxed.. and he paid for the drinks that day.. Thank you dear.. :) so sweet of you.. after I arrived home, it felt as if I'm beginning to miss him.. but I'm still afraid of this feeling.. when I'm not very sure of what he thinks of me...
I'm just praying for the best... Insyallah...

Till then... I'll try to update more and regularly hehe..

Salam Aidilfitri to all... Love ya...