Thursday, 30 April 2009

Patience...

It just bothers me why people choose to make friends with people who are really attractive, rich and popular... Hmm maybe people just want to be in their shoes after all. Does that make a person happy?

The same goes in a relationship... guys would most probably choose ladies who are gorgeously attractive physically with the 'supermodel' facial features, with smooth skin.... they will try to change the ladies into what they want them to be.. no matter what.. It's very normal for that to happen these days as what people want is being recognised and respected by others.
If a guy goes out with his partner he would want other people to see that there is a beautiful young lady beside him. That is just the trend. No one wants to date a lady who is not physically attractive to a guy. Just a thought... would it be a usual trend these days that a guy will marry only those who is physically very attractive... eventhough an 'unattractive' lady has shown her real true feelings towards him? Hmmm....
I have many friends who are very attractive physically, but it seems like there's something is missing from each and everyone of them.. that is, they are not dating any guy till now. It seems odd to being not asked out by any guy, though they are working as professionals in the field that they are working and financially very stable. Perhaps it is the guys who do not want them to be 'wives', though they are always ready if someone proposed to marry them at anytime. Many has even suggested to their parents and siblings to find them a suitable guy and agreed for arranged marriage. Who wants those these days? I seriously think that not many guys would want arranged marriage unless they know who they are marrying to. It is a pity that these lovely ladies are not being given a chance to go out on dates and find their partner who will love them for who they are and not for what they have.
Hmm.... lots of questions in my mind.... but I just have to be patient for all the answers...